BEAT YOUR WOMAN IF YOU CAN
I could remember his response. He said, "my friend, you have to beat a woman for her to sit up and be responsible for ones" I guess that was advice.
I remained speechless for sometime as he kept telling me the need to beat a woman.
The reason why I remained silent was not because I did not know what to say, but because I was thinking of where to start from, having understood that his thinking faculty is that of an infant.
It occurred to me that he was operating within the lowest intelligent quotient (IQ), so trying to talk sense into him will be starting A,B,C (the Genesis of the creation of woman)
After taking his words to the fullest, I asked him a question that also turned him speechless. My question- my good friend! What do you expect from a baby? To skip her phase for yours, to skip the teenage and adolescent phase to Adult phase?. It does not work that way.
The discussion line is drawn from an act done outside wedlock. Now, let's talk about real and legal acts. There are hundreds of thousands of married men out there who base their thought upon this principle.
Hearing is the characteristics of the ear. You can hear virtually everything at your reach, but whether to go with or not that which you hear is the sole decision of the hearer.
I am saying this because many of us are very good at argument. That's not what I am here for, I am here to say the right thing just the way it is. Knowing well that what is morally right is right, and what is morally wrong is wrong. No two ways about it.
Each time I see a husband beating up the wife, it paints a different picture to me and to everyone out there who knows the truth.
"God does not and will not give you a ready-made wife"
He(God) said in His word, "it is not good that the man should be alone, I will make him a help meet for him". Now let's bring back our minds.
"An helper can never be like the helped except if possible, when they are together for a given time". Let's not forget the fact that both party are of different families entirely, breed in different ways and as such, you don't expect her to give you hundred percent, you cannot even do the same.
When God uses the phrase, " meet for him", He (God) talks about a man and a woman who will meet each other's flaws: mistakes, struggle, success, and even nonsense. What am I saying in essence? You have to put all these into consideration before taking a step….
Notwithstanding, there are flaws in marriage. And one of the sure ways of dealing with them is to accept them wholeheartedly, and you will never be carried unaware.
I can hear someone saying, " is it really possible to have a beating-free relationship/marriage?" And I'm saying "Yes".
The reason why you will miss or missed it in marriage is not necessarily because you chose or made a wrong choice, but because you missed it from the beginning.
And now I tell you, beating a woman is barely the right option. In fact, permit me to use the word " never the right thing ". There are other ways to go about every situation.
Men of valor, please reshape your mindset.
What do you think about this? We welcome your comments.
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