Dream Confirmation of a life Partner

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Some time ago I published a post about "The place of a woman in marriage Proposal". In that post, we encountered a critical issue that I think we should address before we get carried away by misconceptions stigmatizing a whole lot of people in the world today, especially, the youth.

We talked about some women who got carried away by the sweet words from their proposed partners who told them they had a dream, and that God told them/confirmed them to be their life partners, but later discovered they married the wrong men.

The big question is: is it that they never saw what they claimed, or is it that God was just playing dice with their future? The answer is capital 'NO' So what's the issue? It's the dreamer (that's where the problem is)
Hope you will not mind if we talk in a baby's language, so simple, so clear, and concise. 

What happens is: two forces are controlling the mind of every person in the world (that is: God and the Devil). And the complication about the whole issue is: because of how dirty Mechanics are, we find it difficult to spell out an outcast from Mechanics. What appears to be real, may not necessarily be. Think of a scenario, where you could stand from afar and behold a body of water running across the road. Now, this is true because you've truly seen it, but that's not real. The more you get close to the ocean, the more it runs away.

One of God's Channels of communication is through dreams. But guess what? The devil shares the same channel.

Therefore, if God communicates to you through dreams and you tamper with your relationship with Him, He gives way, and the devil key in immediately using the same channel, giving you all the best confirmations you can think of, all of which are lies. And I tell you, you will mistake it for God since they are the same.

We should also note that, as long as the intended wife/husband is not on good terms with God, there may be manipulation in the confirmation(s) received. It simply means that having a personal confirmation is not enough. It would be nice too if you could also confine on someone. Have someone trusted to always discuss critical matters with. Someone who can look you in the eye and tell you what you want to hear, and the ones you would not want to hear. Someone who can also go to God for you.

I can hear someone asking, "Are you telling us that dreams are no longer true?" Well, that's not what I mean. I'm only telling you that there are factors that drive away the real message from a man

The solution for the whole issue is, "Test every spirit to know whether they be true or not(1 John 4:1). When the scripture says, "every spirit", it means every spirit, whether good or bad. Remember! Because it's good today doesn't mean the end is joyful; and because it's ugly today doesn't mean the end is scary.

My words? Seek advice, counsel, and prayers from trusted and godly brethren. And then, you are good to go.

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