One Mistake, One Virginity, One Pride.

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"Men love war because it's the one thing that stops people laughing at them" 

-John Fowles

There isn't anything like fixing-broken-virginity. But if at all there is, it wouldn't be hymen replacement, rather, it would be mindset replacement. One Mistake you make today, may ruin all what you've built for many years.

People often ask- is virginity breakage associated with only the female gender? Well, I guess the answer is 'NO'. Someone would ask again, then why always the female gender? Perhaps the load weighs ton on you and you couldn't help but to seek response to this question that has prepared to break you unless you receive a reseanable response.

Well, like I said, the answer is 'NO'. This subject matter always never takes the female gender out of the center because: while no virginity is inferior/Superior, theirs is so delicate such that a slightest slip will first disorganize the keeper(the girl in question), and so the possibility of having to remold or take-to-whole the broken fragments is as bad as being impossible.

Let's just be plain- let's tell ourselves the truth. The game men play on your virginity as a young girl is not such that the dice will stop by at six. Infact, that dog you think you are is harmless, and the same people you bark always and will always eat you in circus. And guess what? The toothpick will always get to know that little dirty sin the teeth have committed, and the secret the mouth has harbor.

Today I see men, I mean real big and grown up family men running after, and desiring so much the natural assets of these small and highly deceiving young girls who barely see them as vipers but as a means to the glory land they will never reach. These same men will kill their wards if they dare engage in such a act with little boys talk less of big Daddy(their Dad's contemporaries). Wait a minute, like my mum use to say: children no dey fear somtin? So the world has grown so simple that nothing surfurcate this children? ...food for thoughts anyway.

Well, as people would justify it- hymen intact does not implies a welcome character. You can preserve and protect your virginity like termites would protect its Queen and yet, still remain a beast. But I tell you, it will help you so much if only you can, such much that I cannot mention, ranging from your self development in different phases of your individual growth.

I am not such, and will not promise you that you will not be tempted to use it most especially to secure a mouth-watery favour in life. It shall be that your 'No' shall deny you even what you merit and you would have had with ease, it may/shall disconnect you from others, etc. But there comes the beginning of your little, yet great glory that could not quarantine you because you stood by the truth, because you do good. But, it's not a droll situation.

Understand: control what happens in your life as a young girl because, ...one Mistake can disstabilize everything you've worked for. I have already loss my virginity, what next? "Reset your mind".



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